A letter to my mentor..(Mother-in-law)

Dear Amma, I am writing this letter to thank you for everything that you have done for everyone in your life. We are very far from each other, 8231 miles away, but you are with me everyday and i know you are doing well with my father-in-law, your children, and with your grandkids. I know you are always very busy with maintaining family. Sometimes I think about you and pray for your physical illness that with all the difficulties you were never tired to do anything. With all the obstacles you never said you are overwhelmed. I am writing this letter to express my gratitude to you that you gave me the opportunity to see you closely. I am gratitude to you for the time we were able to spend together and learned a lot about life and living limitations. I am really thankful to you and your son because you gave me the opportinuty to enter into your family. My relationship with your son is a great shot that's why i was able to become a part of your family.
Anyway, i want to write and let you know that you are a great influence and sunshine in my life. I always looked up to you. You made me realize that life is not for thyself when you were working days and nights for every person, no matter it was too hot or too cold. I still remember that time when i first met you. That was a great moment in my life when you welcomed me from inside from the door and i was outside of the door. I felt like i am standing at the door of a heaven and an angel is welcming me while i looked at your innocent face. Then i saw you and your every steps in your everyday life. I never told you that you were a huge influence to take a transition in my new life. When i srarted my life as a mother and as a wife i followd you. I remember the times when you made appetizing dinner for me and other members. I try to cook like you, but unfortunately i never could cook like you. I simply appreciate you and how you live your life with great dignity and compassion.
What really stuck me your story as a survivor. You are going upstairs one by one. As a diabetic patient you take insulin everyday and you have high blood pressure, kidney problems, etc. I have never heard a person like you who always think about other people even though when you are sick. You have never said to anyone that you are not feeling well while you are really sick. I knew from you how to sacrifice and manage your anger. You are a hero of inspiration and guidance. Mentors come to our life many times many ways, but you are a great mentor in my life. I think of you when i fall into trouble and suffer with difficulties. Through your example, i saw there are great motther-in-law out there. I hope, everyone can have a person like you as a mentor in their life.

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  1. Prof. JeglinskiFebruary 22, 2021 at 7:48 AM

    Nurunnahar,

    Very sincere and detailed letter to your mother in law. It is well-written, clear, and full of admiration for this special person in your life. I like how you admired her and learned from her just by observing her style and grace. This is a very heartfelt letter.

    I have some easy suggestions for improvement. The first is to include 2 more images or pictures. This may seem a lot, but it will give your blog a better design and more detail. You can find images on Google that are simply nature or symbolic if you do not want to use photographs all the time.
    Try to have 3 images per post.

    The second recommendation is to break up your large body of text here into three distinct paragraphs. That means you will have to space out your paragraphs. Use a line of space or indent to indicate where the new paragraph begins. This will just help break up the large block of text into smaller sections for the reader to digest.

    Overall, a very sincere and beautiful letter. I hope you consider sending it to your mother in law.
    She would be proud.


    Grade: 90

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