major experiences in my life

Rise and fall is the nature of life. Everyone in this life is going through so many things, so many experiences. Some of these things people forget as the time passes, but some of the experiences, events they can never forget in their whole life. My life is kind of a rose tree. All the stems has thorns, but at the end there is a mind-blowing fragrance flower which is the best achivement of a tree. This post is about some experiences of my life. These experiences give me reflection and when think about these times it teaches me lots of things about life-knowledge, power, and greater insight in life.
Firstly, I was a little singer and evryone loved my singing. I had won a lot of certificates and prizes in schools and colleges. That's why i thought i was a good singer, but all my thoughts became vain when i went to a contest named "Close up-1". I spent my schools and colleges in a small town, but i went to a big city to complete my graduation. When i was a third year student, i joined that competetion and i was little confident that i will be selected. I did not know that knowledge is vast. I did not learn anything untill i faced the competetion. I was rejected and the judges told me i sing well, but i need more practice. All my thoughts were failed and i learned that music is vast and vast and i have learned only one drop from from an ocean. It was a great experiences in my life.
Second experience was about my transition to the USA from bangladesh in 2010. It was a big change in my life. i was born and brought up in a village then in a city. I never went to a place by myself and i never slept by myself, because i was scared to sleep by myself. I used to sleep with my mom and then with my roommates in hostel when i went to complete my graduation. In 2010, i came to the USA and i felt iike i was an alien, i cannot cope with this environment, these people, and cultures. Eventually, i have learned that country, culture, religion, race is nothing for a person, it is just a manner. We should ignore these differences and take everything from heart that every religion, culture, country is mine. It gives me knowledge that I am not a different person from other people and other culture, and country.
Another experience was about another transition of my life. It was in 2014, when i had my first child. My husband, my parents were still in Bangladesh at that time. I was alone by myself and i lost my job that time. I had no place to live and no money to survive. I felt so frustrated and depressed and i thought why i was struggling a lot? Why i had to suffer a lot in my life. I thought God do not love me. However, I had to go to a shelter which was a shocking moments in my life. I never thought that i have to go to a shelter and that time i considered myself as a meaningless person. Eventually, i understand that transtion makes a person powerful. They can cope with any environments, any situation in life.
One another experience was about my marrige. It was a big experience in my life. This experience gave me greater insight about people. My family was not a quite happy with my decision to marry my husband. Their dream was- my husband would be a rich man from higher class family, but my husband is from a middle class family and not a very rich person. Actually, in my opinion, money cannot make a person rich, it is about a person's personality which makes aperson rich. I knew that i am taking a challenge. However, gradually i understand that i did not make any mistake. I was right that money is not a factor in life. It is all about happiness.

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  1. Prof. JeglinskiMarch 1, 2021 at 7:37 AM

    Nurunnahar,

    Great stories. All of these stories are full of heart, details, and they are easy to follow as you write so well.

    There are a few minor grammar errors that you can easily correct. The first is to break up your text here into different, separate paragraphs. That way, the reader knows when the next transition is coming up. You can put a space between the paragraphs if you'd like. In formal English writing, you would indent the first line of each new paragraph.

    The second easy fix is to capitalize the word "I"... as in "I did this". Here, you often just i (lower case).

    The stories are well written, deep, and meaningful. You've learned a lot along your path, and I'm sure that each of these stories were big turning points with lots to learn. They seem humbling, challenging, and they each provide a moment of personal growth.

    You are just missing your images. Try to have 3 per post for best design.

    Overall, great stories. You just need to make some simple corrections and include images to create a near perfect post.

    You're doing very well. Keep working to achieve this.


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